Living Wisely in 2010

In 2009, some people did some really dumb things. A prime example is the Balloon Boy caper involving two "Reality Show Wannabe" parents who coached their three children to lie to the authorities and the media while staging a reckless stunt.

We need to be careful about pointing fingers, however, because all of us engaged in various kinds of foolishness, too, from spending money we didn't have to saying things that we'd love to take back. God only knows (and I use this expression deliberately) the scandalous things that we have thought and done that, but for the grace of God, could have gotten us into big trouble in the last twelve months.

What all of us need is a dose of common sense and a refresher course in biblical wisdom. To that end, in 2010, I'll be preaching through the book of Proverbs about "Living Wisely". If this appeals to you, listen in at "hopefellowship.ca".

Wisdom, to quote Norman Cousins, "is the anticipation of consequences". And I wish you a new year and decade characterized by wise choices that anticipate joy, peace and glory to God.

Solicitation Letters

Year end solicitation letters have been piling up in our home and creating stress in us. Is it just my imagination, or are there more than ever this year? They certainly have an unusually urgent tone, since most Christian agencies have had to make drastic cuts due to reduced giving during the recession.

This morning over breakfast we put all the letters on the table and ruthlessly decided who we would support and who we would not. It would have been nice to say yes to everyone, but our approach is to give our money only to those causes that we are informed about and interested in.

We also decided which items we would donate from the Christmas Giving Guide that the Christian Reformed World Relief Committee has put out. This week we'll let my parents know that in their name a latrine will be donated to a community in Cambodia and a goat to a Third World family.

I feel lighter now that we've made our year end "giving" decisions. Not only is it more blessed to give than to receive, it is also a relief to be done with that imposing pile of donation requests.

Tiger In The Woods

Tiger Woods has asked for privacy to deal with his personal problems. The media and the public, however, have not granted his request. Every movement between his home and the hospital is being scrutinized. Every word on his website is being analyzed. And news program and current affairs magazines are intent on keeping viewers tantalized.

His desire for privacy is understandable. The allegations of multiple affairs have tarnished his squeeky clean image and I'm sure that he is both embarrassed and fearful. But the best defense in a situation like this is to be pro-active, like Late Show host David Letterman who confessed on his show to having sex with employees and NBA All-Star Charles Barkley who went public with his gambling problem.

It was Jesus who said, "There is nothing concealed that will not be disclosed, or hidden that will not be made known." Since that's the case, you're always better off stepping up with the truth instead of letting others step all over you with whatever dirt they dig up. That's not just true for Tiger but also for the rest of us who struggle with our own temptations.

Right now, Tiger is in the woods. I hope he uses the "truth club" and gets back in the game as a "flawed but real" hero who everyone can respect and support as he seeks help.

World AIDS Day

AIDS is an epidemic that some Christians have dismissed as a disease that only infects the gay population. Some have gone so far as to suggest that anyone who gets AIDS is being punished directly by God for immoral sexual behaviour. But missionary doctors and nurses, as well as relief workers, tell us that there are many who are AIDS victims because of sexual abuse or sexual ignorance. Their hearts bleed for these victims and their strategy is simply to love each patient and to educate them about prevention.

I'm glad that my denomination, the Christian Reformed Church, has taken a very compassionate stand on this issue. Too often, the church is known only for what it is against, rather than what it is for. But in places like Africa where 12 million children have lost one or both parents to AIDS, the Christian Reformed World Relief Committee is pro-actively providing home based care programs for AIDS sufferers, HIV/AIDS education and values formation in schools, and programs that help community leaders provide pastoral care, counseling and funding for medications and clinics. This ministry of the Christian Reformed Church is called Embrace AIDS.

In Jesus' day it was lepers who were rejected and isolated by the community. Today's lepers are the world's AIDS victims, of whom there are now 33 million. Our thoughts and feelings about these infected persons should reflect the loving way Jesus dealt with those who were labeled "unclean" two thousand years ago.